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I've never been, but I've read the FAQs here, and have a plan.  I'm not looking to experience everything in TJ the first time out, but to have sex and keep complications and stress as low as possible.  Planning on late October/November

In general:  Bring cash (20s, 10s, and 5s), driver's license, passport card, and condoms only.  I want to see BGs instead of SGs, so dress in light slacks and dress shirt.

 

Get a room in a hotel on the U.S. side and take a shuttle to the border

Go through the checkpoints.  Use passport card (application in process right now)

Get a cab and ask to go to the Hong Kong club/Chicago Club/Adelita

Go in - the ladies know what you're there for.  One will approach you, or you can ask one to come over if she interests you.  The prices are low enough already that I'm not concerned about negotiating.

(I like to take my time - about an hour, so requesting a room for the night seems more effective than getting the 20 minute knock)

Final step - have great sex!

 

Could the more experienced members tell me what they think?

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1 hour ago, jimdigriz said:

Use passport card (application in process right now)

My passport card took 4 Months to arrive in these pandemic times, you sure?

 

1 hour ago, jimdigriz said:

(I like to take my time - about an hour, so requesting a room for the night seems more effective than getting the 20 minute knock)

Yes, correct.  Even if you wont spend a night in it.

1 hour ago, jimdigriz said:

In general:  Bring cash (20s, 10s, and 5s), driver's license, passport card, and condoms only.

I would bring some type of credit card or ATM card as well.  That is a reserve in case you need the money.

 

 

Final step - have great sex!

Yes, correct.  Please see this post of mine.

 

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Plan seems overall solid. 

Often contested here, but I'd recommend a yellow cab vs the Taxi Libres for going in/out of the Zone since they tend to be aligned with Jorge Hank Rhon, of probable cartel ties.  Taxi Libres tend to get pulled over and searched more often.

Yes, 20's are good but skip the 10's, and bring a bunch of 5's and 1 dollar bills since they are always stingy with change.  

Unless you want to do some sight seeing in San Diego, stay in Mexico if planning on being there for more than one night.  It's nice to be fully immersed instead of escaping back to the United States .

 

 

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Also note that sex for an hour or more needs to be specifically negotiated in the bar, as does MSOG and any specific activities like kissing or BBBJ. Unless you are really interested in the bar scene -- both for scoping out the girls as well as the club/speakeasy atmosphere -- you might be better off just going with escorts. Get a nice hotel in Tijuana rather than one in the US and bring in girls from agencies. Price per hour will be cheaper, they are usually GFE, and you don't need to spend time in the bars. Obviously, if you are interested in the bars, go for it.

And I agree with c-diddy. Stay in Tijuana regardless of if you do escorts or clubs (or both). You won't have to cross every day (easily two hours wasted) and you get to experience Tijuana.

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3 hours ago, jimdigriz said:

I've never been, but I've read the FAQs here, and have a plan.  I'm not looking to experience everything in TJ the first time out, but to have sex and keep complications and stress as low as possible.  Planning on late October/November

In general:  Bring cash (20s, 10s, and 5s), driver's license, passport card, and condoms only.  I want to see BGs instead of SGs, so dress in light slacks and dress shirt.

Get a room in a hotel on the U.S. side and take a shuttle to the border

Go through the checkpoints.  Use passport card (application in process right now)

Get a cab and ask to go to the Hong Kong club/Chicago Club/Adelita

Go in - the ladies know what you're there for.  One will approach you, or you can ask one to come over if she interests you.  The prices are low enough already that I'm not concerned about negotiating.

(I like to take my time - about an hour, so requesting a room for the night seems more effective than getting the 20 minute knock)

Final step - have great sex!

Could the more experienced members tell me what they think?

What has been said by others so far is good advice.  Heed it.  Get a room at Ticuan and order in escorts.

If you do go to La Zona, don't wear slacks and a dress shirt.  You will stand out and appear to have money.  It could make you a mark.  Jeans and a T-shirt are the recommended dress.

Uber is the best option for getting around Tijuana.  If you have it, use it over the taxis. 

Have fun!!

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Since the OP doesn't mention the current changed circumstances of the Zona, I feel the need to more heavily underline the fact that the clubs (Hong Kong, Adeltias, etc.) are closed right now. They have set up "speakeasies" in the hallways of their neighboring hotels where you can get a more cramped copy of the club atmosphere.

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6 hours ago, c-diddy said:

 

Unless you want to do some sight seeing in San Diego, stay in Mexico if planning on being there for more than one night.  It's nice to be fully immersed instead of escaping back to the United States .

I second this strongly.  First of all, going back at night can be sketchy and if you go by uber/taxi it is certainly as safe to have them take you to a hotel.  You get a better deal for your hotel in TJ and have the escort option or extra time with bargirl option.  People have noted Ticuan but there is also Gran Hotel (a little further) or Villa de Zaragoza and Aqua Rio (cheaper). Finally, just the time of crossing twice a day sounds like a headache although maybe at certain times it wouldn't be bad.  

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7 hours ago, jimdigriz said:

In general:  Bring cash (20s, 10s, and 5s), driver's license, passport card, and condoms only.  I want to see BGs instead of SGs, so dress in light slacks and dress shirt.

I bring only 20s, 5s and $1 bills.  

I strongly recommend getting the Global Entry card too.  It is invaluable when coming back to the US from TJ.

I always wear shorts and a t-shirt or casual shirt, preferably something with a logo like Lacoste.  The ladies will notice.  

 

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35 minutes ago, huatulco said:

I bring only 20s, 5s and $1 bills.  

I strongly recommend getting the Global Entry card too.  It is invaluable when coming back to the US from TJ.

I always wear shorts and a t-shirt or casual shirt, preferably something with a logo like Lacoste.  The ladies will notice.  

did you forgot to say used peso only 

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Given the current exchange rate, I agree that your $ will go further if you convert and pay in Pesos ... example.  On the Musas website, most girls are 1,600 Pesos or $90 an hour.  Do the math with the exchange rate currently at around 21.5 pesos per dollar that works out to about $75, not $90.

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This is really phenomenal advice - thank you all! 

@c-diddy, @Sargon, @KCQuestor Since I wasn't planning on using an escort originally, could someone answer one more question?  I checked the escort directory, and MLB looks reliable.  But I like to have a backup just in case, so has anyone had good service with any of the other agencies?

@Dulla :  In response to your question, yes it's possible that I won't get a passport card by October/November due to the virus.  But those are just my preferred dates, so if I don't have the card by then I'll just delay my trip.

Thanks again for all the great advice!

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38 minutes ago, jimdigriz said:

This is really phenomenal advice - thank you all! 

@c-diddy, @Sargon, @KCQuestor Since I wasn't planning on using an escort originally, could someone answer one more question?  I checked the escort directory, and MLB looks reliable.  But I like to have a backup just in case, so has anyone had good service with any of the other agencies?

@Dulla :  In response to your question, yes it's possible that I won't get a passport card by October/November due to the virus.  But those are just my preferred dates, so if I don't have the card by then I'll just delay my trip.

Thanks again for all the great advice!

IMHO, MexicoLindobar and Cumintj are probably the two best (and priciest) of the agencies. If you look at their websites, you will see face and body pics and GFE is pretty much guaranteed. That being said, I tend to be a bit frugal with my pesos and have used Good Girls and Queens for about half the price of the two aforementioned agencies. No face pics on the websites but both bookers are friendly and will send pics via WhatsApp. Good luck and report back!

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I've used Musas a number of times and have never been disappointed. I have heard other guys say they've had issues, and reports are that they heavily moderate their forums to remove complaints. But I've always had good times with their girls. That said, i haven't used them in over a year.

If your Spanish is adequate, you can also do well with Seeking Arrangements, especially if you are looking for longer dates than just an hour. A Seeking girl may even offer to show you around Tijuana, or even down to Rosarito or the surrounding area.

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A few points about escorts:

Escorts won't go to a hotel in the Zona, so you're looking at a nicer hotel which will cost you a little more. There are hotels that serve escorts that rent for four hours at a time, but they're farther away from the Centro area and you would need to take a taxi to get there. I suggest if you're planning on seeing an escort, get a nice hotel overnight and use it for a base of operations as well. The hotels Jefffrey lists are all good suggestions.

MLB is a good choices for newbies, as the owner is an American and speaks and writes English. I have also had no problems with Cumintj, although owner Mundo shuts off his phone after 8 or 9 at night, so you need to have everything planned before then.

I suggest that after you pick out your escort targets, come back here and see if there are any reviews of them. If not, ask if anyone has spent any time with them. The info can help you from making a mistake.

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The amigos are giving great advice as usual, but I will have to differ with a few in regards to escorts. In my opinion when a man first mongers in TJ he absolutely must try BG first. BG arribas are the quintessential mongering experience. Chilling at the bar with some beers while getting close to a BG, then after some small talk taking her to your room, there's nothing like it! Stay at Cascadas and enjoy the women! During the day Uber yourself to some nice restaurants in TJ which there is plenty of. You can't go wrong with this plan amigo.

 

Escorts are cool but that should come a little later after you've had your fun in the bars. As for SG, I think that they are an acquired taste and on top of that one must (in my opinion) possess a certain level on knowledge to have a great time with them. Stick with BG for now and the rest can come later.

 

Whatever you do, don't get let down if you have a bad or lackluster experience with a chica, it happens to even the most experienced monger. If you have a bad experience all you have to do is get another chica, and another, and another, and another.......that's the point of mongering in TJ among other things, to try various women. Having great sex shouldn't be a worry at ll, it will happen guaranteed.

 

 

 

 

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3 hours ago, KCQuestor said:

I've used Musas a number of times and have never been disappointed. I have heard other guys say they've had issues, and reports are that they heavily moderate their forums to remove complaints. But I've always had good times with their girls. That said, i haven't used them in over a year.

If your Spanish is adequate, you can also do well with Seeking Arrangements, especially if you are looking for longer dates than just an hour. A Seeking girl may even offer to show you around Tijuana, or even down to Rosarito or the surrounding area.

which girls would u recommend at musas?

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Just now, hoechiminh said:

The amigos are giving great advice as usual, but I will have to differ with a few in regards to escorts. In my opinion when a man first mongers in TJ he absolutely must try BG first. BG arribas are the quintessential mongering experience. Chilling at the bar with some beers while getting close to a BG, then after some small talk taking her to your room, there's nothing like it! Stay at Cascadas and enjoy the women! During the day Uber yourself to some nice restaurants in TJ which there is plenty of. You can't go wrong with this plan amigo.

Escorts are cool but that should come a little later after you've had your fun in the bars. As for SG, I think that they are an acquired taste and on top of that one must (in my opinion) possess a certain level on knowledge to have a great time with them. Stick with BG for now and the rest can come later.

Whatever you do, don't get let down if you have a bad or lackluster experience with a chica, it happens to even the most experienced monger. If you have a bad experience all you have to do is get another chica, and another, and another, and another.......that's the point of mongering in TJ among other things, to try various women. Having great sex shouldn't be a worry at ll, it will happen guaranteed.

As for SGs the best way to break the ice with a chica you would like to know, is to to bring a bottle of perfume with you!!   Give the bottle of perfume to the chica who is standing NEXT TO the one you want to hook up with!!  The one you want to hook up with will see you give a gift to her co worker, and will immediately want you!!   This works like a charm because almost all chicas want whatever they do not have or cannot have!!

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7 hours ago, boyy_nexxtdoor said:

which girls would u recommend at musas?

That is an impossible question for one guy to answer for another.  Do you like spinners?  Do you like big asses?  Do you like natural tits or giant ridiculous plastic tits?  Flat chested?  Tall?  Short? 

Gotta go to their site and do the search for yourself, amigo.  You can come back here and search on the name on the off chance that someone has done a review, but ultimately, the experience may be entirely different for you than anyone else.

Good luck and happy hunting!

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14 hours ago, boyy_nexxtdoor said:

which girls would u recommend at musas?

Well, I haven't used them in a while, and one of the reasons I stopped is because my ATF left the agency. I connected with her once after that, but then she disappeared entirely.

7 hours ago, Sargon said:

That is an impossible question for one guy to answer for another.  Do you like spinners?  Do you like big asses?  Do you like natural tits or giant ridiculous plastic tits?  Flat chested?  Tall?  Short? 

Gotta go to their site and do the search for yourself, amigo.  You can come back here and search on the name on the off chance that someone has done a review, but ultimately, the experience may be entirely different for you than anyone else.

Yeah, different guys like different things. 

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15 hours ago, briguy said:

A few points about escorts:

Escorts won't go to a hotel in the Zona, so you're looking at a nicer hotel which will cost you a little more. There are hotels that serve escorts that rent for four hours at a time, but they're farther away from the Centro area and you would need to take a taxi to get there. I suggest if you're planning on seeing an escort, get a nice hotel overnight and use it for a base of operations as well. The hotels Jefffrey lists are all good suggestions.

And another great thing is that the MLB site has a list of hotels that their escorts will go to, which will almost certainly be acceptable to escorts from other agencies.  So as long as I pick one of those (which include the suggestions that everyone here made) I can't possibly have a problem.  Doing the groundwork via this forum and listening to all of you has definitely saved me a lot of headache!

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COVID closures aside.

I don't like your plan, haha  but seriously,

I can see no reason to stay on the US side of the border.  Get a decent hotel in TJ.  Enjoy the food, the ladies, the whole atmosphere.   The border is a pain in the ass, there are nice hotels in TJ and the food is great.  Cross once and time it for the shortest wait.  

Take a uber/taxi back from the clubs late night rather than walking.

Get some pesos before crossing at the border exchange booths.  Dollars will be fine in the bars (when open) but all the street Taco stands, SG's, local taxis, etc will be cheaper in pesos. 

Don't over think it.  

 

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if you Stop at a Cambio make sure it is ‘no commission’. And look at the ‘buy’ price.  because I ride the trolley down to San Ysidro I usually stop at one of the cambios within one block radius. and buy $100us to start.. roughly that will be slightly over 2000 peso at the current rate.

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On 8/28/2020 at 5:22 AM, Sargon said:

That is an impossible question for one guy to answer for another.  Do you like spinners?  Do you like big asses?  Do you like natural tits or giant ridiculous plastic tits?  Flat chested?  Tall?  Short? 

Gotta go to their site and do the search for yourself, amigo.  You can come back here and search on the name on the off chance that someone has done a review, but ultimately, the experience may be entirely different for you than anyone else.

Good luck and happy hunting!

i want someone who is pretty and does not stink.

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