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Don Pisto

Maybe I'm going out on a limb here, but IMO:

 If a chica is working and the money is right, she will let older guys (Like me=I'm 64 years old) buy her fichas, etc., even dfk and arriba.

She may even tell us that she "loves" us, etc. She is usually a highly skilled actress/manipulator, using her well rehearsed lines to induce us to fall in "love" with her. 

She may even go out on a "date" with us older guys-if she's bored, and/or if she can use us for a really nice/fancy meal, and even perhaps lie to us for additional resources/money-

as well!

DON'T FALL FOR IT!! IT'S ALL A GAME-TO CAPTURE YOUR CASH FLOW!!

Since, her fantasy is to hang out, and fall in love with a local Mexicano who is age appropriate to her. The problem is that alot of those guys do not have the resources and maturity 

to provide for her and usually her baby/babies. These "immature, and usually volatile relationships' usually blow up within six (6) months or until she becomes pregnant and the 

baby is born--then the guy bolts!!

I have witnessed this scenario countless times!!

So, they may "use" us older gringos to finance their ventures or rather misadventures  with their Mexicano novios.

If you can accept this reality, and don't fall madly in  Love, then you will be ok, if not, then God have mercy on you!!!!

Don't worry however, the chicas need us, both old and younger guys more than we need them!

You will grow and learn how the Zona Norte works, over time!!!

Main thing is to KEEP MOVING FORWARD!!!

VIVA MEXICO!

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ohjack
28 minutes ago, Don Pisto said:

If a chica is working and the money is right, she will let older guys (Like me=I'm 64 years old) buy her fichas, etc., even dfk and arriba

So are you saying that with older men, they wont automatically sit with you,  go arriba, dfk, and gfe? -Just trying to be real in my expectations. I'm well kept, in good shape and am respectful in public.

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smoothburnn

IN every situation there are ALWAYS Exceptions, but the vast  majority of situations are of course as Don  Pisto describes and says ! Guys just need to remember that we all can’t be  the Exception.  Also “older”, can be very relevant.  Is the age difference 35 yrs, 20 yrs,  or a mere 10 yrs?  The # of years separating you and the love of your life can  effect , signify & indicate many different realities and non realities of your situation.  And again as Don Pisto said “ You will grow and learn how the Zona Norte works, over time “

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smoothburnn
9 minutes ago, ohjack said:

So are you saying that with older men, they wont automatically sit with you,  go arriba, dfk, and gfe? -Just trying to be real in my expectations. 

IMHO, that’s not at all what he is saying

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43 minutes ago, ohjack said:

So are you saying that with older men, they wont automatically sit with you,  go arriba, dfk, and gfe? -Just trying to be real in my expectations. I'm well kept, in good shape and am respectful in public.

Naturally, all chicas have their preferences. I Have known chicas that primarily go up with Chinos. I know many that won’t go up with black guys.  I know girls that primarily go up with gringos.  I know many that prefer us older guys. They all have their reasons. If you are well kept, in decent shape and not hideous looking, you will find the girls coming up to you. That being said, I have seen chicas working on old fat ugly guys, so there is someone for everyone LOL! 

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Don Pisto
12 minutes ago, Sargon said:

Naturally, all chicas have their preferences. I Have known chicas that primarily go up with Chinos. I know many that won’t go up with black guys.  I know girls that primarily go up with gringos.  I know many that prefer us older guys. They all have their reasons. If you are well kept, in decent shape and not hideous looking, you will find the girls coming up to you. That being said, I have seen chicas working on old fat ugly guys, so there is someone for everyone LOL! 

Nailed it!

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ohjack

Thanks all you wise ones! 

So new to this. I'm worldly and well traveled but have only been with two "escorts" or bar girls before I was 60, once in Amsterdam and once in Havana. Never crossed my mind as I have had great relationships, great side and hidden relationships. or couldn't get away to TJ  from the SO to even think about it. Fell into it in Mazatlan last summer and want to enjoy it to its fullest while and when I can. Not naive to think that they really "want me" or am I looking for a relationship, just someone who wants to please based on the fact that she is getting paid.  Also ,I'm into the late 20s-to 40s  "full body" type. 

 

Can I get real full service with escorts?

 

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smoothburnn
18 minutes ago, ohjack said:

 

Can I get real full service with escorts?

As you get to know TJ & La Zona better & better, you will find, learn, and experience that you can find & experience any & everything that you want.  Of course not with every Chica, and not every time, but EvErYtHiNg from A-Z is out there.  

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2 hours ago, Don Pisto said:

Maybe I'm going out on a limb here, but IMO:

 If a chica is working and the money is right, she will let older guys (Like me=I'm 64 years old) buy her fichas, etc., even dfk and arriba.

She may even tell us that she "loves" us, etc. She is usually a highly skilled actress/manipulator, using her well rehearsed lines to induce us to fall in "love" with her. 

She may even go out on a "date" with us older guys-if she's bored, and/or if she can use us for a really nice/fancy meal, and even perhaps lie to us for additional resources/money-

as well!

DON'T FALL FOR IT!! IT'S ALL A GAME-TO CAPTURE YOUR CASH FLOW!!

Since, her fantasy is to hang out, and fall in love with a local Mexicano who is age appropriate to her. The problem is that alot of those guys do not have the resources and maturity 

to provide for her and usually her baby/babies. These "immature, and usually volatile relationships' usually blow up within six (6) months or until she becomes pregnant and the 

baby is born--then the guy bolts!!

I have witnessed this scenario countless times!!

So, they may "use" us older gringos to finance their ventures or rather misadventures  with their Mexicano novios.

If you can accept this reality, and don't fall madly in  Love, then you will be ok, if not, then God have mercy on you!!!!

Don't worry however, the chicas need us, both old and younger guys more than we need them!

You will grow and learn how the Zona Norte works, over time!!!

Main thing is to KEEP MOVING FORWARD!!!

VIVA MEXICO!

Well stated Don Pisto.

It is however very easy to let the fantasy get to us. Often times if I have a very good time with a girl I want to believe it's because she truly likes me and sees a future with me. Silly yes but just the way it goes when we think with our little heads below.

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46 minutes ago, Geting2Old said:

Well stated Don Pisto.

It is however very easy to let the fantasy get to us. Often times if I have a very good time with a girl I want to believe it's because she truly likes me and sees a future with me. Silly yes but just the way it goes when we think with our little heads below.

IMO this is true, but it’s also effected by how wise life’s, & TJ’s experiences have made one .   The things I’ve experienced & learned during life in general, and during my years Mongering in TJ have a direct effect on my fantasies, and my understanding of them.  I thought that I knew a lot about TJ & La Zona after 5 yrs of TJ Mongering , and after 10 yrs , and after 15 yrs.   now 20 yrs into it, I know all to well that you never stop learning, never stop experiencing new things , and no matter how much you think you know, it’s usually less than you really do.   But some may not be able to acknowledge or admit that .  Again.  IMHO

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Don Pisto

This is a great Thread!!

Thanks to all for contributing and thanks to the OP who initiated this forum!

VIVA ALL THE BEAUTIFUL MEXICANAS!!

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2 hours ago, ohjack said:

Thanks all you wise ones! 

So new to this. I'm worldly and well traveled but have only been with two "escorts" or bar girls before I was 60, once in Amsterdam and once in Havana. Never crossed my mind as I have had great relationships, great side and hidden relationships. or couldn't get away to TJ  from the SO to even think about it. Fell into it in Mazatlan last summer and want to enjoy it to its fullest while and when I can. Not naive to think that they really "want me" or am I looking for a relationship, just someone who wants to please based on the fact that she is getting paid.  Also ,I'm into the late 20s-to 40s  "full body" type. 

Can I get real full service with escorts?

I would be interested in reading your Mazatlan experience in our "Other Destinations In Mexico" thread?

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ohjack
1 hour ago, Bubby said:

I would be interested in reading your Mazatlan experience in our "Other Destinations In Mexico" thread?

Yes - never thought of that. Will do!

OJack

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Sargon
9 hours ago, ohjack said:

Thanks all you wise ones! 

So new to this. I'm worldly and well traveled but have only been with two "escorts" or bar girls before I was 60, once in Amsterdam and once in Havana. Never crossed my mind as I have had great relationships, great side and hidden relationships. or couldn't get away to TJ  from the SO to even think about it. Fell into it in Mazatlan last summer and want to enjoy it to its fullest while and when I can. Not naive to think that they really "want me" or am I looking for a relationship, just someone who wants to please based on the fact that she is getting paid.  Also ,I'm into the late 20s-to 40s  "full body" type. 

Can I get real full service with escorts?

Lots of late 20s to 40s full body types in TJ.  Maybe Adelitas is where you should start.

My opinion: with street girls (SGs), it is next to zero girlfriend experience (GFE, meaning she at least pretends to be into you and makes you feel like her boyfriend).  They are about just pump, pump, pump, cum and pay the money.  back on the street as fast as possible.  Caveat: I have never been with a SG; I'm just going off what I've read here.  Some of the veterans will tell you they get GFE from SGs after they have been with them several times.

With bar girls (BGs), the GFE can be there.  It really depends on the girl and this is where the interview at the table can help.  You establish a rapport, you get a feeling for how friendly and/or novia-like she is.  You can pitch her "your menu" if you have certain things out of the ordinary you like or want her to do.  

With escorts, the GFE is fully expected as part of the transaction.  With some of the agencies (like MexicoLindoBar) the GFE must be there or the girl is no longer employed.  

If you are looking for GFE, escort is your best option.  

In my opinion, worth exactly what you paid for it!

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49 minutes ago, Jimmydr said:

They care how much we have.

You can always - always - find a girl that will let you fuck her if you give her money.  Some of us want the fantasy that she is "into us" and that we "click" and that she is enjoying the time together and especially in the cama.  That is what I was talking about....

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Jimmydr

After 30 years of this, she isn't.

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smoothburnn

🤭🤭 🙊🙊🤫

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On 2/13/2020 at 6:22 PM, Jefffffrey said:

I have never had a chica complain about how old Benjamin Franklin or Andrew Jackson are.  

Just that they wanted more of them.

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