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Hey All!

I am anticipating my first trip to TJ in about a month and it feels like waiting for Christmas when I was a kid LOL! 

Questions: Do Chicas care how old you are? Do they treat 60 + well? Do they care LOL?

I am 60, and don't think of myself as old.  I'm in great shape and health. I don't indulge at all in drugs, tobacco. Well traveled, good social skills, really good in street Spanish (albeit Cuban street)  and have a good sense of ability to "read the room." Just a few bags under my eyes, along with thinning grey hair.  I want to try the paraditas, the HK, AB, BT, Chicago scene, as well as the escorts, including a threesome.  Would like to make as many "bombing runs" as I can for the next few years.

Thanks for advice. You Mongerers are inspiring!

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KCQuestor

They care primarily about your money. There are lots of older guys indulging with girls at all levels. I see guys there 60 and up all the time. I will say that they probably care less than prostitutes in the US, as Mexican culture doesn't seem to have as big a problem with large age differences between men and women.

Don't worry about it and have fun. if you have money to spend, they'll have affection to give.

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27 minutes ago, KCQuestor said:

They care primarily about your money. There are lots of older guys indulging with girls at all levels. I see guys there 60 and up all the time. I will say that they probably care less than prostitutes in the US, as Mexican culture doesn't seem to have as big a problem with large age differences between men and women.

Don't worry about it and have fun. if you have money to spend, they'll have affection to give.

Thanks much

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smoothburnn

Most Third World countries seem not to have an issue with a large age difference between couples ( older men/younger women ) .  With working girls (Prostitutes ) , your  money 💰 is their concern , and most could care less about your age.  With Civies ( non working women ), as I previously stated, large age differences generally are not a problem at all.   I’ve had several real relationships with Civies in TJ.  All have been much younger than me .  The age differences have been 12yrs, 17yrs, 19yrs, 24yrs, & 34yrs 🙀🙀.  The 34 yrs was my most recent Civie Novia .  I thought that one would be problematic, but there was a large age difference between her mother and father; and she has two older brothers that are married to women, both 24yrs their junior  ( All Mexican nationals ).  So to her a large age difference was completely normal.  I’m in my early 60s now , and I tend to develop relationships with Civies that are late 20s, to mid 30s.  Early to mid 30s seem to be my comfort zone.  Again, working girls should not be an issues at all, as long as you speak the language of 💰💵💸💶.

My experiences

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ohjack

Thanks so much I can’t wait to get down there!

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Dulla
3 hours ago, ohjack said:

Hey All!

I am anticipating my first trip to TJ in about a month and it feels like waiting for Christmas when I was a kid LOL! 

Questions: Do Chicas care how old you are? Do they treat 60 + well? Do they care LOL?

I am 60, and don't think of myself as old.  I'm in great shape and health. I don't indulge at all in drugs, tobacco. Well traveled, good social skills, really good in street Spanish (albeit Cuban street)  and have a good sense of ability to "read the room." Just a few bags under my eyes, along with thinning grey hair.  I want to try the paraditas, the HK, AB, BT, Chicago scene, as well as the escorts, including a threesome.  Would like to make as many "bombing runs" as I can for the next few years.

Thanks for advice. You Mongerers are inspiring!

60 in the Zona Roja is like 45 in the rest of the normal world. Assuming you are fit, you look clean, well groomed and smell nice.  I have seen the girls roll their eyes when older unkempt men touch them.  I saw one girl flat out refuse the Mesero when he asked her to join this older guy maybe in his 70's. Some girls look disgusted at even younger but drunk men (specifically at drunk men)

I tell you some guys are downright offensive to on lookers let alone the girls they are messing with. This drunk idiot in his mid 50's was going around putting dollar bills in the girls bikinis or bras while at the same time squeezing their flesh hard, almost pinching their titties and ass. What a fucking moron. I remember I felt my blood boiling.  One of the girls turned and pushed him using her both hands.  One of the Meseros saw this and called a bunch of security guys who pulled the moron out the door.

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6 minutes ago, Dulla said:

60 in the Zona Roja is like 45 in the rest of the normal world. Assuming you are fit, you look clean, well groomed and smell nice.  I have seen the girls roll their eyes when older unkempt men touch them.  I saw one girl flat out refuse the Mesero when he asked her to join this older guy maybe in his 70's. Some girls look disgusted at even younger but drunk men (specifically at drunk men)

I tell you some guys are downright offensive to on lookers let alone the girls they are messing with. This drunk idiot in his mid 50's was going around putting dollar bills in the girls bikinis or bras while at the same time squeezing their flesh hard, almost pinching their titties and ass. What a fucking moron. I remember I felt my blood boiling.  One of the girls turned and pushed him using her both hands.  One of the Meseros saw this and called a bunch of security guys who pulled the moron out the door.

thanks- I be clean, groomed, fit and minimal gut at all, and treat women nicely. When i was in Mazatlan, I never acted inappropriate with massage girls, even asked then if i could do this or touch that. - Thanks!

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amosrolling

As the others say, $ is the primary concern, and older mongers pretty common, so as long as you are well-groomed and treat the girls with respect you will have no problem getting girls to go to the room with you for naughty service.  I would say that most girls would rather be with an older, well-groomed monger than a younger guy who did not take care of himself.

Mongering is complicated.  If you are 30 years old, handsome, well-groomed, and have a good sense of humor, will you get the top tier of service more consistently?  Sure.  However, I think sometimes the girls use monger youth and good looks against them.  In other words, they play on their ego.  They think, "Sure she is into me, look how much younger and better looking I am that these other guys."  But really the girl is just thinking of the money, she knows that he thinks this, and uses it to play PLM games with him.  Very few if any girls are looking for love in a whorehouse.  

 

 

 

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Dulla
2 minutes ago, ohjack said:

thanks- I be clean, groomed, fit and minimal gut at all, and treat women nicely. When i was in Mazatlan, I never acted inappropriate with massage girls, even asked then if i could do this or touch that. - Thanks!

Mind you, a girl would go with you for sex even when she doesn't like being with you, for some reason or another.  However if you really want a type of sex as natural and pleasing as possible, you want her to be into it as well. For that you got to be presentable in all aspects and have some game too. 

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Izaya
22 minutes ago, amosrolling said:

Very few if any girls are looking for love in a whorehouse.  

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Don Pisto

Heck, I'm 64 years old, but I keep in shape, stay clean, don't get too drunk(most of the time), and treat all with respect, and it's never been a problem.

Hell, I've seen guys much older than me with young "working" chicas and I was jealous!

Crazy! Age isn't a major factor with "working" chicas!

Just be clean, sober, and treat them with respect and you are good to go!

VIVA MEXICO!

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Izaya

Let's assume 99 percent of HK's patrons walk into the club presentable , ( clean, cologne, hair combed, balls powdered), what percentage of bargirls only go upstairs with young, fit, handsome mongers? 5 percent? 10 percent? How do you spot these Chicas?

What percentage of bargirls will go up with anyone? I know how to spot these chicas. They usually grab my ass or sit next to me and start nibbling on my ear. :kiss_34:  #metoo

 

 

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34 minutes ago, Don Pisto said:

Heck, I'm 64 years old, but I keep in shape, stay clean, don't get too drunk(most of the time), and treat all with respect, and it's never been a problem.

Hell, I've seen guys much older than me with young "working" chicas and I was jealous!

Crazy! Age isn't a major factor with "working" chicas!

Just be clean, sober, and treat them with respect and you are good to go!

VIVA MEXICO!

You're my new hero!

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smoothburnn

Another thing some Chicas like about older gentleman is that they are usually more financially secure.   That doesn’t mean they throw their money around, nor that they spend or give ridiculously, but often they are simply more generous, and not as tight with their money as some younger guys.  Older gents are also often more respectful , considerate, and more well behaved than their younger counterparts.    This comes from numerous Chicas that I know, have been with, and have talked to.  

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ZreeLone
7 hours ago, ohjack said:

Would like to make as many "bombing runs" as I can for the next few years

A chica will like a 60 yr old plus dude more than a 25 year old Brad Pitt type guy if you can blow your load in 30 seconds or faster.

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4 hours ago, Dulla said:

Mind you, a girl would go with you for sex even when she doesn't like being with you, for some reason or another.  However if you really want a type of sex as natural and pleasing as possible, you want her to be into it as well. For that you got to be presentable in all aspects and have some game too. 

Make up sex is hot.  Angry sex is hot.  Animal sex is hot.  Pity sex is hot.  Connection sex is hot.  Drunken porno sex is hot.  I am sincerely repulsed by you sex is not hot.

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todd8208
1 hour ago, ZreeLone said:

A chica will like a 60 yr old plus dude more than a 25 year old Brad Pitt type guy if you can blow your load in 30 seconds or faster.

Damn that counts me despite the fresh powdering of my balls.

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Haus

If you're older you can afford to be el Padrino to her kids, giver her money for her mama's operation and pay for her little sister's quinceanera.

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Geting2Old
8 hours ago, Dulla said:

Mind you, a girl would go with you for sex even when she doesn't like being with you, for some reason or another.  However if you really want a type of sex as natural and pleasing as possible, you want her to be into it as well. For that you got to be presentable in all aspects and have some game too. 

Absolutely agree with this. My experience with this were girls the mesero brought to me, or a girl that approached me when the club was not busy because she needed the money. These ladies will not necessarily be into you but they tolerate the sex for the payout.

I myself am no spring chicken but do not let that bother me anywhere I go to have fun with the ladies. I bypass the age thing by letting the ladies approach me in the club and if I feel she is at least being genuine then I will sit with her, have a few drinks, and go from there. As I said before I am not a fan of meseros bringing girls to you, I did that a few times and the sex was not very inspired.

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Gringo Sin Ropa

I think many working girls are actually looking for older men. I have known escorts (not in TJ, in another close by country) that have told me they specifically screen for age and do not like to be involved with men under 35 due to men in this demographic having less resources and being immature. I also seen where escorts will even put that they "love older generous men" right in their add. 

I agree that in Mexico age differences matter much less than in the US and that many women (civies and putas) are much more comfortable with an older man than in the US. This is definitely something the majority of us here can benefit from!

I also think that being  attractive, well groomed, easy going, having a good sense of humor and knowing spanish are all pluses for the chicas and can make for better experiences for us.

However, I think that the majority of chicas look at this like icing on the cake. Its a bonus to them but in the end its all about the money and its their job. 

I relate it to my own job. I like to have fun and work and be around people that are pleasant as well. However, I show up everyday to get a pay check and I would not show up at all for free. 

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Don Pisto

@Gringo Sin Ropa you nailed it at, "I show up everyday to get a paycheck and I would not show up at all for free."

That sums it all up right there!

Brillant!

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huatulco

Like Frank Sinatra said back in 1965 at his concert at the Sands, the calendar may say I'm 50 yo, but I am really 28!!

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todd8208
20 hours ago, todd8208 said:

Damn that counts me despite the fresh powdering of my balls.

Left "out" out above. Maybe that might generate a few more likes.  

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Jefffffrey

I have never had a chica complain about how old Benjamin Franklin or Andrew Jackson are.  

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booger

nope. last time i went to adelitas bar. i seen quite a few older mongers having fun. 

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